i know they're preparing for marriage, I'm happy for them.. and I'm very grateful for their sensitivity, they tried to 'keep low profile' from me, knowing what i was going through.. Oh ya, remember when I was in my pit, I shared that my buddy's gf came and I was greatly blessed? That's them - ZhongWei and Wendy. They are really such a blessing to me. Wendy even took the effort to print out those Bible promises into stickers, so I can focus on God then. That is the most creative encouragement techique I've ever seen, really. Now they are getting married, I'm really so happy for them. :)
Come to think of it, it's kinda strange too. I kinda 'first' to get into the idea of marriage, among the 3 of us - Zhongwei, Ziwei and me. Yet their commitment are so ready to put into action. In fact, Ziwei was married early this year and Zhongwei is getting married end of the year. How timely.. I'll always remember this year 2008.
And the best surprise is when Zhongwei told this good news to me, I was about to 'book' them to witness my baptism in church. Because I'm so greatly blessed by them, I really wanted them to share my joy that day too. And behold! Their wedding date is 15Dec08!! My baptism is on 14Dec08! How timely! I know they'll be busy with all those last minute preparation, but Zhongwei say they'll try their best to attend..What a friend!! (Zhongwei, no pressure ok? really.. even if you cant attend, I'll still attend your wedding on 15Dec :p )
I was so happy that I called my sisters to share this great news. Fyi, Zhongwei and my family are close (please do not ask me why-i dunno) since our primary school days. He's like a godson to my mother, though he only visits her once a year (esp last day and last hour of CNY). He's a guest who we can simply trust him to make himself feel at home, in our house, without having to entertain him. :) And I'm so glad he finally managed to 'persuade' Wendy to marry him, lest I'm sure no one would.. hahaa..
..Some of you may be wondering...I know it's kinda hurtful but the joy of his marriage is greater than this hurt in me. We practically grew up together, from 'friendly' basketball vs netball team, traffic monitor to chasing around with waterbottles..Those were really good memories. Don't worry for me, ya? I'm ok, really ok. I know it might remind me of some hurt, but hey..my situation is still in God's Hands. What makes you think it wont get better? God is still working in my outcome!! Oh, ye of little faith.. :P I know my God will work it out for me in His timing. You just wait and see :D
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