Just received a call from B's friend whom he trusted.. he told her he's decided..and things don't happen overnight..True,I understand things dun happen overnight..but we have always put our issues on the table and work the solutions out! Why did he withhold his issue,when he's supposed to talk it out? Now his issue has gripped him so bad that he is giving up..cant he see it's all his own decisions all along - returning to commit after he prayed about us,to keep the issue to himself,and to give up.. I have no participation at all..This is what he means by 'fairness'? And trust me,I know he's the type who keeps things to himself,carry the stress himself..the independent type.. I've always ask him to open up and talk it out,especially it concerns both of us.. But I guess it doesn't matter now.. I just want to leave everything to God... If He meant us to be,we'll to be somehow...
Oh God, show us Your will and be our Guide.. I really don't know what happened.. I just want to leave it to You..I don't know how Holy Mother could do it-it's so hard to trust You when I cannot see..I know You are with me, I pray for Your strength and grace..Let my eyes be open to see Your Way.. My friend told me no one knows what's the future holds,so I'm taking one step at a time.. guide me O Lord..
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Hi J,
Hmm .. last time I also has the agreement with my gf that if there is any issue, or a 3rd party in between us, we will bring it to the table before thing turn sour. But trust me, I'm a guy .. and I didn't do it at all. I keep everything to myself. Maybe this is why Man from MArs and Woman from Venus.
To conclude ... sometime men are childish!! I think he is immature in handling this. So, don't bother too much on a childish person. Glad that you are trying to live on without him ...
Eh, is our Father Almighty ever married? Who is that Holy Mother?? Hmm ... I don't think you drink early in the morning, but there is really no Holy Mother. :)
eh...holy mother can be christ's mother leh.
Hi Gal,
Understand that it is a very tough and trying period for you. People always say that there's light at the end of every tunnel, but when we are going through the tunnel, many a time we would not expect to see that light...When i broke up with my ex-bf, i felt the same way as you did now. But God has been very merciful and gracious to pick me up from that miry clay and mould me into who i am now(thou still have many flaws...ahaha)
Gal, for everything that happens, it happens for a reason. I was devastated at that point of time when i broke off, asking why it happened and why happen to me? But now, i thank God that it happened that way and i'm really grateful to Him.
Sometimes, in the mist of all the problems, it's hard for us to know what is God thinking about and why He allows certain things to happen. It might not be just due to sin but also a time of moulding us.
Rememeber faith is a substance of things hope for and evidence of things not seen. The father of faith-Abraham, lived his life based on faith and i really totally salute to him. We just have to keep reminding ourselves that no matter what happens, be it good or bad, we must trust that God has the best for us and will bring out through the situation we are in. One of the ways i have learnt is to keep praising the Lord in good times and bad times and esp even more so in bad times. Praises (thanksgiving) and prayers are powerful weapons which can help us to overcome many life difficult situations. Maybe you can try doing that, it really helps. =)
Kim,
(J : sorry that I use your diary to 'disturb' Kim)
If Holy Mother = Jesus's earthly mother, then ..
Holy Brother = Jesus's earthly brother. So, do you think there is Holy Brother around? Maybe thre is Holy Cousin too cos John Baptist was His cousin.
If Jesus's Mother is Holy Mother, and yet, Jesus didn't really acknowledge her and said, "My brothers, sisters and mothers are those who are staying with me .." then ...
I think He was showing disrespect to "Holy Mother" ..
Anyway, I better don't write too much, religion, politic .. etc are some sensitive issue. Haha !!
On the question on Holy Mother,I believe in the Coronation of Mary-Mother of God. In revelation 12:1, the Blessed Virgin is honoured by the Most Holy Trinity,by whom she is crowned Queen of Heaven and Earth. If this is the honour paid to her by God,can anything less expected of me who requires her constant prayers to Our Lord.We approach God through Jesus in the Holy Spirit with Mary and with the saints.
good morning everyone!
eh...hehe.
Connect - haha. ok. u have a point. we are all holy in a way lah.
J - chill baby, dont be too serious. relax a bit. i believe you will find humor in all these soon. Life is full of ups and downs and it is a shame not to laugh through all these waves, so we must all take life with a pinch of salt ya! gal, this is only a small setback, nothing can faze u ya!
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