It's been a while since my lsat entry..allow me to be emotional, affectionate.. whatever..before the sad reality sets into me..
I just watched 'Sex In the City' movie (how can i miss its big screen when I actually spent most of my days in Taiwan, sitting on the couch and watching every episode of the season, feeling so lost when I returned to Singapore who banned it!)..Anyway, the point is that I followed Carrie's reflection and search for love since the starting..and finally seeing Mr Big and her happily married after all their 10yrs journey of loving n hurting..
What can i say? I just love this movie! I cried..how I really cried throughout the 145mins..and I really cried from my heart..The search and doubt for love till having the love of the lifetime..only to be so bady and deeply hurt by this same love..how strong and important is girlfriends support..and finally realising the meaning of 'true love'...
OK, i will not dwell on the part of searching, found and hurt..I'm very sure and certain you'll agree that I can identify myself to that.. afterall I also spent weeks sleeping, refusing to wake up, too tired to eat, no reason to even smile (just like Carrie when Big could not overcome his fear, insecurity of his love for Carrie and walked out on her on their wedding day!) (OK,I know B didn't walked out on me on our wedding day, I guess the reason He didn't allow that is cos He knows that'll be way beyond my limit (He never allows us to carry more than what we can bear))
What I really want to share tonight is how much I love my girls - Jennifer, Cheryl and Wenya! It's really God's blessing how bonded our friendship could develope in just 3 short yrs (in fact, 2yrs cos we were not really sharing as good friends in our 1st yr) We can chat about everything (yes-even hot sexual stuff) and anything at all (even work woes). And the best part is we are all of different characters, attitudes and perspectives! Jen is ever so homely, Cher is ever so outspoken, and Yaya is ever so supportive in her sweet own ways. Yet whenever someone is down, we're always just a call away despite late hours..
I remember how they stood by me when lawrence ditched me for a new girl..How they follow-up with me on my every meals, and Jen..she even personally delivered a sunflower EVERYDAY without fail.. till I was able to get out of my room..And when I got so hurt this time, they respect my time to be alone, and made their time and effort to be with me in the first moment when I finally opened up to them.. How honest (and blunt) their comments are, yet full of love and concern..Though of different faith, our faith, love and trust for one another is really a wonder! It really took a lot of effort to 'accommodate' each other's unreasonable and hair-pulling attitudes and perspective, and we survived that without disregarding advice and even nagging!
We were together through joy and grief..be it Jen's disagreement with her hubby, Cheryl's fear when her dad had to undergo operation, or Yaya's medical fret, and my emotional pits. Of course, we share our joy too - marriage, engagement, graduation and sharing of 'shopping achievements + tips'..especially Cher travels for work frequently for event planning. We may not be as rich as the girls in the story to expend luxury pampering and high-class meals, but we are so in love for each other. Their bfs always get included in our chill-out nights tat they can be our 'sisters'
Though we hardly have time to meet up these days, but we know and we will be there for one another. No need to 'update' regularly, yet we will know what's happening with one another... I love you girls!!
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